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The Pitfalls of Being A People Pleaser

Dr. Norma Kreig|08/12/2026
The Pitfalls of Being A People Pleaser

This message is about not chasing but magnetizing because you trust the Universe will bring you exactly what you need, and you don’t have to force, impress, or be everything to everyone.

Have you ever met someone who takes things in stride and knows their worth? They never have to prove themselves. Things synchronize for them without trying so hard. Often, there is no need for them to prove or impress, but they exude a quiet confidence that makes those around them feel safe.

Then some keep flashing their credentials and accomplishments and don’t let their actions speak for themselves. They have a persona that endlessly tries to promote themselves, but these individuals often wonder why others aren’t drawn to them and need constant recognition to feel accepted.

I know people who do, do, do for others to be accepted. Not that helping isn't a noble thing, but when it’s done to please and be accepted… Well, that shows they honor everyone else's approval more than they honor their own self-worth.

That’s why the concept of self-love and acceptance of oneself is not selfish or conceited But necessary for the good of everyone and makes giving a pleasure, not something that depletes you.